Black Girl Blueprint

No New Friends: Learning How To Make Friends As Adults

Black Girl Blueprint

Show Notes

Season 3, Episode 11: No new friends or whatever Drake said...! In this week's episode, we will be getting real about the challenges of making friends as we get older. We’re going to be talking about social lives, more than just learning how to be social again after the pandemic but what it's like navigating the world as an introvert or an extrovert and having social anxiety.

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