Show Notes
I am really excited about this interview with returning guest Katie Reid, author of the new Bible study God, What Do I Do? which explores the book of Judges and the story of the prophet Deborah. Katie shares how she felt called by God to write this study, even though it took years to come to fruition, and she explains how Deborah's story has personally impacted her, especially in finding the balance between not shrinking back but also not steamrolling others. Katie highlights the importance of maintaining a close relationship with God, relying on His strength rather than our own, and being willing to step out in faith even when the path ahead is uncertain. Our conversation touches on the challenges of discerning God's calling, the power of prayer, and the value of community, with Katie encouraging listeners to approach the Bible study with an open heart, taking time to truly digest the lessons rather than rushing through. She also highlights key takeaways from Deborah's life, such as her godly confidence and collaborative spirit. Katie truly provides a compelling overview of what readers can expect to find in God, What Do I Do?, and her insights offer a timely message for taking on life's unexpected twists and turns by drawing near to God and leaning on His guidance. Her book promises to be a valuable resource for anyone seeking to make wise decisions and deepen their relationship with God, and I strongly encourage you to grab a copy!
In This Episode [0:35] - Today’s conversation is with returning guest Katie Reid, author of the Bible study God, What Do I Do? [1:10] - Katie reveals how, while visiting the Holy Land, she felt called to write about Deborah’s unique leadership. [4:37] - Knowing that God is good helps Katie trust Him even when life gets difficult or confusing. [6:02] - Hear how Deborah’s confidence inspired Katie to embrace leadership without shrinking back. [8:59] - We learn that Katie’s journey has involved learning to let go of perfectionism. [12:43] - Katie reflects on having reluctantly run for school board after many spiritual nudges confirmed that it was her calling. [14:44] - True callings often feel scary and require deep trust and reflection. [16:03] - Katie reflects on how obedience affects not just her but also her family and future generations. [18:27] - Hear how rejection led Katie to write fiction. [21:11] - I highlight how delayed fulfillment doesn't negate God's call; it often requires courageous first steps. [23:09] - Katie suggests taking small, faithful steps now, even if the larger calling feels impossible. [25:07] - Fear often hides beneath feeling stuck, and faith means surrendering control to God. [27:12] - Simple prayers still carry power and deepen our relationship with God. [28:56] - Inviting God into daily moments, even small ones, opens the door to His power. [31:58] - Katie realized that true strength begins when we stop striving and fully depend on God's sufficiency. [34:34] - Naming your spiritual obstacles invites God's power to free, heal, and transform from within. [36:56] - I discuss how chronic stress often signals self-reliance rather than true rest in God. [39:19] - Deborah’s legacy showed Katie the power of godly confidence paired with intentional collaboration.
Links & Resources
Crystal Paine The Crystal Paine Show - 142. Worship Suffocates Worry (with Katie Reid) The Martha & Mary Show
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God, What Do I Do?: A Bible Study on Judges 1-5 About Making Wise Decisions in Uncertain Times by Katie M. Reid
Made like Martha: Good News for the Woman Who Gets Things Done by Katie M. Reid
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