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The Lynch Family: Boxing Helena & Lost Highway (Erotic 90’s, Part 17)

You Must Remember This

Show Notes

One of the most notorious – and least seen – erotic narrative films of the 90s, Boxing Helena was the misbegotten passion project of Jennifer Lynch, daughter of David Lynch. Four years after Boxing Helena, the elder Lynch released one of his most controversial films, Lost Highway, which tackles similar themes as Boxing Helena, including male sexual fragility and the “Madonna-Whore” complex. Today we’ll talk about how Boxing Helena became bigger as a punchline than a movie, and we’ll trace David Lynch’s career as a provocateur to try to explain why his excavation of the dark, sexual core of Americana was celebrated when he made Blue Velvet, and pilloried a dozen years later when he made Lost Highway. (00:00) OJ Simpson and the Origins of Lost Highway (05:56) How Boxing Helena Got Made Without Madonna or Kim Basinger (13:40) Protests and Post-Production Problems (28:20) Lost Highway’s Enigmatic Structure (47:34) What Is Lost Highway About? (59:15) Robert Blake and the Death of Bonny Lee Bakley

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