Opportunity Gap: For Families Navigating Special Education

How “bad behavior” may signal anxiety in kids with ADHD

Opportunity Gap: For Families Navigating Special Education

Show Notes

Many kids with ADHD also deal with anxiety. Together, this can end up looking like defiance, avoidance, or just acting out at school.

In this episode, we’re breaking down what’s really going on behind these behaviors. And we share practical ways that parents can support their kids — at home and at school — through clear communication, behavior plans, and strategies that actually work.

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