You Probably Think This Story’s About You

Unmasking the Manipulator: Insights from a Prosecutor

You Probably Think This Story’s About You

Show Notes

In this episode, Brit sits down with Hugh Barber, a seasoned trial lawyer and former criminal prosecutor from Seattle. They discuss his extensive experience in prosecuting serious crimes such as aggravated murder and sexual assault. The conversation touches on difficult topics including sexual assault, rape, and the profound impact of trauma on survivors. Hugh shares insights from his career, emphasizing the importance of supporting victims and the complexities of the legal system. They also delve into issues such as manipulation in relationships and the nuances of consent. Brit reflects on her own experiences, making the discussion deeply personal and poignant. Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors Produced by Larj Media Executive Producer Brittani Ard

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