A Man Isn't A Plan

5. Sex, Intimacy & The Slow Burn: Why Sex Isn’t Love

A Man Isn't A Plan

Show Notes

We unpack the difference between sex and emotional intimacy, and how moving quickly into physical connection can sometimes create the illusion of love, security, or emotional closeness. We share our own experiences with dating, intimacy, and learning to slow down, set boundaries, and become more intentional about who we allow into our lives and bodies. We explore what it means to build connection through friendship, discernment, and a “slow burn” instead of rushing toward physical intimacy. ...

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