The Mind Your Business Podcast

Episode 820: #BizTipFriday Edition: The 10 Agreements That My Future Self Would Force Me to Sign Before I Ever Started a Business

The Mind Your Business Podcast

Show Notes

If I could send a message back in a time machine to my younger self starting out in business, I wouldn't waste time talking about what to do differently. Instead, I'd hand over a list of the non-negotiable agreements that transform a soul-sucking grind into an extraordinary life! In this #BizTipFriday edition of the podcast, I get real about the "10 Commandments" for entrepreneurs that ensure you stay 10 out of 10 happy, no matter what phase your business is in. In this episode, you'll learn why I view having fun as a daily discipline and how I've managed to stay in this game for 19 years without burning out. We're diving deep into the art of detachment, the danger of the "Midas Touch" trap, and how to stop giving your power away to the critics sitting in the stands, plus much more. It's time to decouple your self-worth from your bank account and start choosing correctly from day one. Let's look at the hard truths your future self wants you to know so you can build a business that serves your life, and not the other way around! Ready to stop thinking like a marketer and start operating like a true business owner? We're kicking off a powerful, brand-new experience on June 11th called The Business Breakthrough Experience. This is specifically designed to help you audit your strategy, find your unique human edge, and cause that next quantum leap in your results. Head over to www.businessbydesign.net right now to get on the priority list and save your seat! Want to go even deeper? Come hang out with me for a free Breakthrough Coaching session! I'll be sharing the exact exercises and audits you can use to coach yourself, and I'll even be bringing people on live to work through their biggest bottlenecks in real time. It's totally free to join, just head over to www.jameswedmore.com/breakthrough to check the session times and register to grab your spot. I'm kicking off our 21-Days to 100 Leads Challenge focused on one simple premise: if you give me a little bit of your time every day, I'll tell you exactly what to do to get your first or next 100 leads! We've had students go from zero to thousands of leads using this exact paint-by-numbers approach. Head over to www.jameswedmore.com/100leads to get all the deets and join us for only $21! Snap a screenshot of the episode playing on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag us, @jameswedmore and @jenniwedmore. We'd love to hear what resonated with you the most from this episode and especially what you want covered in future ones. In this episode you'll hear: The 10 non-negotiable agreements I would send back in a time machine to my younger self to ensure I built a life I actually wanted to live

Why I view having fun as a mandatory daily discipline and the reason I've been able to stay in this game for 19 years without burning out

The danger of "white-knuckling" your way through the startup phase and the way I learned to move everything off my plate in order to find true freedom

How I transmute every stumble into a roadmap for my students and the specific mindset shift I use to make failure virtually impossible

The catalyst for massive growth and how I balance big, crazy goals with a level of detachment that allows the universe to take the lead

How I embody authority energy and demonstrate expertise without falling into the ego traps that I've seen topple so many influencers

The "Midas Touch" trap I experienced and why I had to decouple my self-worth from my bank account

How and why I stopped giving my power away to the critics in the stands years ago

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