113. Ali & Charlie Higgins of DINK Social on Connecting Childfree Couples
The Kids or Childfree PodcastShow Notes
In this episode, Ali and Charlie Higgins, founders of DINK Social, share their journey as a childfree couple and the inspiration behind the app designed to connect DINK couples. You'll hear about: How Ali and Charlie came to their childfree decision as a couple.
The comments and pushback they get about their choice, especially online — and how this differs based on their gender.
Their perspective on the concepts of legacy and impact.
Why they were inspired to start creating community specifically for DINKS.
Their best advice for cultivating connections with other childfree people. (0:25) Meet Ali & Charlie and their childfree decision; (13:57) "Mothering" & "fathering" as childfree people; gender differences; (22:29) Benefits of not having kids for your relationship; (26:39) About DINK Social; (48:22) Advice for making childfree friends About Ali & Charlie:
Ali and Charlie met on Hinge in 2018 and were married in 2021. Since then, they've built a life centered around shared values, curiosity, and the freedom to choose their own path. Together, they've traveled to 24 countries, bonded over great food and drinks, and made movie date nights a regular tradition. Along the way, they've called Seattle and Charlotte home and are now based in Amsterdam — never ruling out wherever the next chapter might take them. They're proud DINKWADs to two dogs, Roscoe and Remy, who are truly their entire world. Alongside full-time corporate jobs, they are co-founders of DINK Social, the social app built specifically for childfree couples. Charlie focuses on business development and building the app itself, while Ali leads community development and social media, growing and connecting the childfree community around the globe.
As mentioned in the episode:
Find DINK Social on Instagram and TikTok at @dinksocial
Their website is dinksocial.com
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