Show Notes
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In this episode, I explain the critical shift between ages 1–5 that shapes whether your child grows into a cooperative teen or years of power struggles follow. Drawing on my work as a clinical psychologist, I break down what it means to move from being a comforter to a loving authority, establishing leadership, explaining the "why" behind rules, and holding firm to three non-negotiables: safety, respect, and responsibility. You'll learn how clear, consistent boundaries in the toddler years build cooperation, trust, and self-discipline that lasts well beyond childhood.
New to my podcast? I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future.
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