Show Notes
The tradwife influencer era is over, but judging by Yesteryear mania, our cultural obsession with its aestheticized submission persists even as it erases. Writer Cynthia Salinas Cappellano talks to Cristen about why the stay-at-home fantasy doesn’t extend to Latinas whose moms and abuelas had no choice but marriage and domestic labor, paid and unpaid. They also get into the Gen-Z appeal of an off-camera trad husband versus the humiliation ritual of dating, while questioning what it looks like when the kids grow up and why don’t we see it, too. Plus! The Nara Smith “Call Her Daddy” interview and a tradwife to wellness pivot prediction.
read Cynthia’s essay: “Yesteryear: Reactionary Literature & Why Trad Wifeism doesn’t work for Latinas”
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