No One Told Us

Rewind: In-Laws and Tricky Relationship Changes After Baby with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish ⁠⁠@drtracyd⁠⁠

No One Told Us

Show Notes

Have you ever found yourself navigating a tricky situation with your in-laws? In this conversation, Rachael interviews Dr. Tracy, a psychologist and couples therapist, all about the topic of in-laws and how they can affect relationships with significant others. Dr. Tracy provides lots of tips for communication and speaking up in uncomfortable situations and how to handle challenging family dynamics with respect.

Inside this episode:

How in-law and family dynamics impact relationships

How to set and enforce healthy boundaries with in-laws and parents

The difference between requests vs. boundaries

Navigating relationship challenges as new parents

How to handle relationships with toxic family members and the option of going no contact

Help finding ways to nurture the connection with your partner

The power in trusting yourself and tuning out outside advice

And so much more!

Mentioned in this episode:

Dr. Tracy’s website: ⁠https://www.drtracyd.com/⁠

Dr. Tracy’s podcast: ⁠I’m Not Your Shrink⁠

Dr. Tracy’s instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/drtracyd/?hl=en⁠

Dr. Tracy’s Book: ⁠I Didn’t Sign Up for This ⁠

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