Famous at Home

The One Factor For Raising Resilient Kids

Famous at Home

Show Notes

One of the most intriguing, humbling, and challenging aspects of being a parent is how our kids mirror who WE are.

And what’s really difficult are the societal — or cultural — norms shaping who we are as humans. Who are we becoming as adults? How are the decisions we make shaping our kids? Do our unrealized emotions influence how resilient our kids are becoming?

As we continue our series on Raising Gen Alpha Kids, these are questions Dr. Josh and Christi address. Some highlights include: What it means to “choose your hard” How loneliness becomes a byproduct of self-protection How silence plays itself out in marriage and the cost it has on our kids What if you’re exhausted and can’t choose the hard thing? The joy and “hard” of helping our kids build resilience Time Stamps: 0:00 Introduction 1:28 Ways to go deeper 7:30 Choosing your hard 11:40 Loneliness and the environment of the home 16:19 How loneliness becomes a byproduct of our self-protection 20:03 How silence plays itself out in marriage and the cost it has on our kids 23:10 What if you’re exhausted and can’t choose the hard thing? 27:48 Choosing a different kind of “hard” 32:41 The joy and “hard” of helping our kids build resilience

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