Show Notes
Welcome back to Gaining Mom-entum! *Trigger Warning* Meghan & Abi spend this week’s intro discussing the recent discovery made by the Tk'emlúps te Secwépemc First Nation of the remains of 215 Indigenous children at the former Kamloops Residential School. They discuss the way the country continues to let down our Indigenous communities as well as some actionable steps that non-Indigenous people can take to show solidarity with the Indigenous communities across the land. They then segue from talking about systemic racism to, well, talking about more systemic racism. Their guest for this week’s discussion is Grace, a friend of Abi’s, who was generous in sharing her time and personal experiences with anti-Asian hate as a Filipino-Canadian woman and the mother of a child who is Filipino, Chinese, and of course, Canadian. She begins by sharing what it was like for her growing up surrounded by people who did not look like her and how her mother’s experience as an immigrant led to internalizing the goal of assimilation. Grace talks about the discipline of diversifying her world and seeking out professionals who operate through a decolonizing lens. Grace shares with Abi & Meghan how she is seeking safety for herself and her son, particularly over this past year with the unprecedented increase in anti-Asian attacks. They discuss inclusion, allyship, solidarity, and how Grace is stepping into her power as an Asian woman and parent. As always, thanks for listening! Please share Gaining Mom-entum with all of the wonderful people in your life! IG: @gainingmom_entum Facebook: Gaining Mom-entum Podcast Email: [email protected] Music: Evan Dysart (Spotify and Bandcamp) Artwork: Catherine Cachia (IG: @catherinecachia, catherinecachia.com) Resources: Chinese Canadian National Council for Social Justice brains on! podcast (coronavirus episodes) Hate is a Virus Kids share experiences of anti-Asian racism during the pandemic (CBC Kids News) How to Talk to Kids About Anti-Asian Violence and Racism (HuffPost) Fight COVID Racism #Elimin8Hate Anti-Asian Violence Resources Act2EndRacism Stop AAPI Hate Minor Feelings: An Asian American Reckoning by Cathy Park Hong
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Abi’s poetry e-chapbook, Gaining Mom-entum: Poems, Parenting, and a Podcast is available now! (See below for more info)
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