Finding Space with Dee Kelly

Episode 37 - Sabrina’s Story The TFMR Doula

Finding Space with Dee Kelly

Show Notes

Today on Finding Space, I’m joined by Sabrina Fletcher, founder of The TFMR Doula, podcast host and advocate.

In 2018, Sabrina and her husband were faced with the heartbreaking decision to end a very wanted pregnancy after receiving a devastating diagnosis during their daughter Clara’s pregnancy. Since then, she has dedicated her work to supporting other parents through diagnosis, decision-making, grief, and life after loss.

In this episode, Sabrina shares her journey with us. We talk about TFMR, the stigma that can still exist, the language used around pregnancy loss, and why so many parents feel unseen in their grief. She also shares how her own experience led her to create support groups, resources and communities for other families navigating TFMR.

Most of all, this is a conversation about creating space for parents whose experiences are often misunderstood or not talked about at all.

As always, please take care as you listen. This episode includes discussion of pregnancy loss and grief.

Support resources are linked in the show notes below.

Connect with Me: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Findingspace_dk⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email: [email protected]

Connect with Sabrina: Instagram: thetfmrdoula

Website Book: The Impossible Choice Grief Book: It's OK That You're Not Ok Book: Flowers in our womb

⁠Resources & Support:⁠ Music Credit to Purple Planet 55245402

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