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How to stop people pleasing and learn how to say no. It's time to put yourself first!According to Dr. Susan Newman, people pleasers want everyone around them to be happy, and they will do whatever it takes to keep them that way. Dr. Newman said, “for some, saying ‘yes’ is a habit." For others it’s almost an addiction, it makes them feel like they need to be needed. This makes them feel important and like they are contributing to someone else’s life. In this video, I am going to teach you a few communication techniques and tricks you can use to start saying “no" to others and “yes” to yourself.In this video:0:00 Intro1:21 Step 1: Internal Validation2:18 Step 2: Start With Small No's2:46 Step 3: Give Yourself Time3:47 Step 4: Know Your Goals4:32 Step 5: Get Rid of Toxic People4:57 Step 6: Stop Apologizing5:15 I'm Rooting For You! ******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ:• Empower Leaders and Managers• Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools• Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration• Improve Client Relations & SalesJoin the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******Vanessa Van Edwards is Lead Investigator at Science of People — where she unlocks the formulas and patterns behind human behavior for hundreds of thousands of students in over 200 countries. She is the national bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding With People, available in 14 languages around the world. Her work has been featured on CNN, NPR, BBC, Fast Company and dozens more. Can’t get enough of Science of People? Check out our Praiseworthy Performance audio guide 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/start/******Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Our understanding of human history has changed. Humans are complex. Do you ever wonder how certain behaviors evolved into common practice? Why we do what we do? What makes us humans? What our unique human facts? What's the history of humanity and what drives us? What I realized is that I'm constantly talking about human behavior, human activity, decoding people but I very rarely talk about what's shaped us through history.In this video, I dive into a few fantastic finds from human history based on the book, Sapiens [email protected] the blog post: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/5-fascinating-facts-human-history-shape-us-today00:00 Intro01:03 Why Humans are Cruel02:42 Why Humans are Cruel- Takeaway03:40 Why Humans are Entrepreneurial04:46 Why Humans are Entrepreneurial- Takeaway05:35 Why Humans Speak07:35 Why We Shape our Worlds09:38 Why We Shape our Worlds-Takeaway10:25 Why Future-Thinking is New12:05 Why Future-Thinking is New- Takeaway12:57 Bonus: My Favorite Story from Sapiens******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you.With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed.Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more.👉People School registration is now OPEN! Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/train...******Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person.She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more.Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically.Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick.👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ******Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 http://bit.ly/37ZWNHSP.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell!******✔ W E B S I T Ehttps://www.scienceofpeople.comFollow Us on:✔ I N S T A G R A Mhttps://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards✔ T W I T T E Rhttps://twitter.com/vvanedwards✔ L I N K E D I Nhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessavanedwards✔ F A C E B O O Khttps://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards#History #Sapiens #VanessaVanEdwards Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Relationship communication is not easy for everyone. Every person has a primary language of love that we have to learn to speak if we want that person to feel loved. There are 5 Love Languages people use to express and feel love and affection. In this video, I will teach about the 5 love languages we use so you can improve your communication with your partner, friends, and family.This video is based on the bestselling book The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. If you're interested in taking a Love Language quiz yourself, you can take Dr. Chapman's official quiz here 👉 http://www.5lovelanguages.com/In this video:0:00 Intro0:20 What is a love language?0:56 Quality time love language2:12 Physical touch love language3:00 Do I need to change my love language for someone else?3:49 Gifts love language4:25 Acts of service love language4:44 Words of affirmation love language4:59 How to recognize someone's love language5:30 Receiving and giving love languageTo learn more about the five love languages you can read our article here 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/love-language-quiz-list/******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video-based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you.With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed.Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more.Join the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person.She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more.Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you ever wonder how you can better yourself within your career? The impact of creating career capital can mean huge things for you and your professional development!In this video, I meet with Kim Kaupe, entrepreneur, speaker, Shark Tank season 5 winner, and one of my good friends ❤️ we talk all about what it means to create a personal marketing plan and everything that goes into career capital!Check out Kim here: https://kimkaupe.com/ & her FULL career capital course here: careercapitalcourse.comHere is the link to vamp up your LinkedIn profile that Kim mentioned!: https://helpmylinkedin.com/When writing your resume, use https://hemingwayapp.com/ to construct your bullet points and maximize readability.In this video:0:00 Intro1:16 What is it like on Shark Tank?2:57 What is career capital?3:41 Creating a personal marketing plan4:29 Your career narrative8:57 What to do if you're an introvert11:28 How to connect with new people13:07 What's the biggest mistake aspiring leaders make?14:08 How to ask someone to be your mentor16:33 Should I work for free?18:58 What is something you wish you knew in the early stages of your career?20:58 Tell us what you wish you knew in the early stages of you career i the comments!Succeed with people with my book Captivate! Get it here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/Learn the secret language of charismatic communication with my new book Cues! Get it here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/#career #careerguidance #levelup #personalmarketingplan #professionaldevelopment #kimkaupe #vanessavanedwards #captivate #captivatebook #cues #cuesbook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever found yourself being cut off in the middle of your thoughts? It’s not just frustrating; it can also undermine your confidence and effectiveness in communication. But worry not! Here are 5 strategies to hold your ground and make your voice heard, without coming off as rude or overbearing. Whether you're in a meeting, at a social event, or even in a casual chat, these tips will ensure that your ideas get the attention they deserve.Read more about how to stop people from interrupting you: https://scienceofpeople.com/stop-people-interrupting/In this video: 00:03 Use an outline 00:15 Don't use the question inflection 00:46 Hold your hand up until you are done talking 01:00 Use the stop gesture 01:08 How you can learn to communicate confidently ******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices