Attention Different | Adulting with ADHD

Why ADHD in Women Goes Unseen for Years with Heather DeAngelis

Attention Different | Adulting with ADHD

Show Notes

๐Ÿ’ก What if your โ€œanxietyโ€ was never anxiety at all? What if the real story was missed for years? In this episode, Heather DeAngelis, ADHD specialist and Columbia-trained therapist, sits down with hosts Stephen Tonti and Aaron Smith to unpack the reality of late-diagnosed ADHD in women. Drawing from both her clinical work and personal experience, Heather shares how high-functioning women are often misdiagnosed with anxiety or depression, and why many spend years trying treatments that never tru...

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