Show Notes
Choosing yourself doesn't mean choosing against the people you love. In this episode, we talk about what happens when healing and healing language - such as boundaries, triggers, nervous system regulation, and self abandonment - become a weapon instead of a tool for connection to self and to your loved ones. Real healing isn't about being right, avoiding compromise, or diagnosing everyone around you. It's about accountability, discernment, repair, and learning how to stay loyal to yourself while making room for another person.
Self abandonment isn't the goal - but neither is self obsession The goal is self loyalty inside the relationship
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