Verity by Phylicia Masonheimer

182 | Sex and Fertility

Verity by Phylicia Masonheimer

Show Notes

THINKING BIBLICALLY ABOUT FERTILITY | BIRTH CONTROL, IVF, MARRIAGE & CHRISTIAN ETHICS

What does the Bible say about sexual ethics, fertility, birth control, IVF, and family planning? Should Christians think differently about contraception, sterilization, and the purpose of sex in marriage?

In this episode of Thinking Biblically, I am tackling one of my most requested (and controversial!) topics: Christian sexual ethics. After years of studying Scripture and walking through secondary infertility and miscarriage, I share how my understanding of fertility, marriage, and the Christian view of the body has changed.

We are talking about hormonal birth control, vasectomies, IVF, surrogacy, and natural family planning. This conversation may challenge what you have always believed, but the goal is not to tell you what to think, but to give you a starting point for further formation.

In this episode, we discuss:

* What Scripture teaches about fertility, marriage, and sex * Why my views on contraception has changed * The ethics of hormonal birth control and sterilization * IVF and surrogacy * How infertility and miscarriage have shaped my perspective * Approaching family planning with biblical wisdom

Watch the entire episode to hear my personal story, the research behind my changing views, and the questions I believe Christians should be asking. Email me for the notes from this episode at [email protected].

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