Show Notes
On this week's episode, we dive into the life of powerhouse entrepreneur and NYT bestselling author, Loren Ridinger, who shares her story of building a global business empire with Market America and Shop.com alongside her late husband, JR. The conversation explores 'Life After Rejection,' as Lauren recounts their early years, falling for JR despite his initial disinterest, and their shared vision that transformed into a legacy.
Lauren recounts meeting JR at the age of 18, the challenges they faced, how JR's vision of an online shopping future defied skeptics, and how he instilled confidence in her to speak publicly despite her fears. She provides a raw and heartfelt account of the grief process, describing the early days of loss as a foggy and dark period, and also discussing the spiritual signs that have helped her feel JR’s presence after his passing.
Her memoir, 'Scrambled or Sunny Side Up,' details her journey of rediscovery following the sudden and immense loss of JR. Lauren discusses finding strength, navigating grief, and ultimately reinventing herself, offering relatable advice on dating yourself and learning to love yourself first in the face of societal expectations.
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