Show Notes
WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! Whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR. Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict.
What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 01:03 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom 03:33 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings 04:23 Reason 2: Some men need space 06:03 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship 06:39 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship 07:35 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him 11:46 Step #2: Do not chase him 12:57 Men and women do things differently 13:34 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband 16:38 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach 21:16 Step #3: Focus on yourself 32:20 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict
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