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Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CU-013-25Most people spend their lives bouncing between pleasing others and chasing freedom—never realizing both paths can feel like a trap. This video breaks down the psychological tug-of-war between ego and superego, inspired by a powerful scene from Shogun. If you've ever felt stuck between doing what you should do and what you want to do, this might reframe everything.00:00 - Intro00:23 - Shogun00:59 - The Scene01:56 - Living Ego 03:03 - The Dilemma 03:35 - Super Ego04:44 - Coping05:57 - Finding The Truth06:58 - The Middle Way08:03 - 3 Powerful Questions08:50 - What Happens Next09:30 - Living Your Path Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Ajit SinghIkjotChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-DraperThis Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself.This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl80:00 - Intro0:14 - The situation1:00 - Where Don shines2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution6:36 - The best way I know to work on thisSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by CharlieEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on CommandSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Build the confidence to stay calm, present, and charismatic in any social setting:👉 https://bit.ly/017-26-VonTysonWhy did Mike Tyson go into an interview expecting to dislike Theo Von, then end up telling him, “I love you”? In this video, we break down what Theo did differently with Tyson compared to his infamous interview with Bill Burr, and why one conversation created connection while the other fell apart.You’ll learn how to stop getting trapped in your own head, listen without slipping into performance mode, ask deeper questions without making things awkward, and handle tense moments without becoming defensive. Most importantly, you’ll see how staying physically calm can make all of these skills much easier when you’re nervous or desperate to make a good impression.0:00 The Art of Navigating Intimidating Conversations0:58 How to Handle Someone Who Intimidates You2:43 The Power of Pausing and Reflective Listening5:35 Building Intimacy Through Incremental Questions12:16 Using Body Language to Stay Calm and PresentSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:https://goo.gl/lWf9gAVocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter. He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more. And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting. After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to. And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does. So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life. That way you'll be able to hook people's attention.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices