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Breaking the Cycle: Understanding and Overcoming Self-Sabotage in Your Health Journey & how to be consistent

Once you know, you know!

Show Notes

In this episode, I dive into the crucial topic of understanding self sabotage and having true consistency in health and fitness, specifically for busy women aiming for fat loss. I explore common misconceptions about consistency, including the unrealistic expectation of being perfect all the time, and how different life scenarios can challenge efforts. Key psychological barriers such as perfectionism, emotional eating, social pressures, and self-sabotage are discussed, highlighting fear of failure or success and low self-esteem as underlying causes. I explain the benefits of a flexible approach to dieting and exercise, adapting plans to life's demands without guilt, and avoiding burnout. Reasons why women might "fall off the bandwagon" are covered, including setting unrealistic goals, the allure of extreme diets, and the impact of life events and stress. Practical tips for staying consistent, such as starting small, habit stacking, and designing a supportive environment, are shared. Drawing insights from "Atomic Habits" by James Clear, The influence of hormones, societal pressures, and the importance of a supportive network in overcoming these challenges are also touched on. Join me as I break the cycle of self-sabotage and build sustainable, healthy habits.

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