When Your Daughter Tells You Something That Upsets You—and You Don't Know What to Say

Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday, an episode of Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones talks about the guilt and second-guessing that can come when you have to say no to your daughter. Whether she’s upset about not getting something she wants, missing out on plans with friends, or feeling frustrated when you set boundaries around her safety, Melissa shares why your daughter’s disappointment doesn’t automatically mean you’ve made the wrong decision—and why being a connected mom...

Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday, an episode of Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones talks about the complicated feelings that can come up when your daughter sees someone else get something she wanted. Whether it’s a friend making the team, a best friend spending more time with someone else, or another girl receiving recognition, Melissa shares why jealousy isn’t always about wishing someone else didn’t have something—and how it can reveal disappointment, fear of losing a fr...

Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday, an episode of Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones talks about what happens after you lose your patience with your daughter and find yourself replaying the moment, wishing you had handled it differently. Melissa shares why one hard parenting moment doesn’t have to become a judgment about the kind of mom you are—and how repair can matter just as much as getting the moment right the first time. Tune in to discover: Why you can have a completel...

Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday, an episode of Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones talks about what happens when your daughter asks, “Mom, what do you think I should do?” and how sometimes the most helpful thing you can do is pause before giving her your answer. Melissa shares why asking, “What are you leaning toward?” can give your daughter space to hear her own thoughts and begin trusting her own judgment. Tune in to discover: Why your daughter’s question may not always ...

Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday, an episode of Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones talks about what to do when your daughter takes something personally that seems small to you. Whether it’s a friend walking past her, a teacher correcting her, or a comment she can’t stop thinking about, Melissa shares why you don’t have to understand why something hurt before you can acknowledge that it did. Tune in to discover: Why acknowledging her feelings doesn’t mean agreeing with her ...