Fierce Marriage

Emotionalism: The Invisible Toddler Harming Many Marriages

Fierce Marriage

Show Notes

Today we unpack the difference between healthy emotions and something far more dangerous: emotionalism. From the silent treatment to storming off to feeling "unloved" even when your spouse is trying, we break down where feelings cross the line from real to ruling, and what Scripture says about putting them back in their place.

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