The Boardroom by Heather Elkington

How to support your team's mental health without lowering standards

The Boardroom by Heather Elkington

Show Notes

How do you support someone struggling with their mental health while still holding them accountable for their performance? In this episode, Heather shares: How to balance empathy and accountability Supporting mental health and burnout When performance conversations are needed Supporting the team without becoming the therapist What ruinous empathy looks like How underperformance impacts team trust

Because being a supportive leader doesn’t mean avoiding hard conversations. Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is be clear about what needs to change, while still treating someone with empathy. If you’re struggling to know what’s really going on in your team, Custard gives you clear weekly insight into your team’s culture, wellbeing, and performance, plus practical actions to help you know where to step in. Find out more at Custard. Got a situation at work you don’t know how to handle? Send it in at [email protected], two lines or two paragraphs, whatever you need. Everything stays anonymous. New episodes every Wednesday at 8 AM. Follow us on Instagram: @the.boardroompodcast & @leadershipheather And btw, Heather drops weekly leadership tips to over 32,000 managers every week; join here: The Custard Culture Club

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