Show Notes
Our guests today are Maude and Phil Mayes. They are relationship coaches who have been writing and teaching for many years about their passion, spreading peace one relationship at a time. They are the authors of "How Two: Have a Successful Relationship." They also write a weekly relationship newsletter and blog. They teach relationship courses and have been featured in numerous live interviews and articles. Their decades-long relationship has been filled with the reality of peace, leading them to examine and formulate what makes this possible. They have dedicated themselves to teaching methods that make this a living reality for anyone wishing to manifest it in their relationships. Phil & Maude Mayes can be found on these platforms: Website: https://philandmaude.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PhilAndMaude/ Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Two-Have-Successful-Relationship/dp/1523940115/ Audiobook: https://www.audible.com/pd/How-Two-Have-a-Successful-Relationship-Audiobook/B08L8B9F33 For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com David Anderson's Linktree Profile The Wedding Chaplain Website Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: On Facebook On Instagram Twitter: @weddingchaplain On LinkedIn On Pinterest Sponsor: EWed Insurance
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