The Space Between Two Lines

Navigating TFMR: One Mother’s Story (With Vivien)

The Space Between Two Lines

Show Notes

In this deeply moving and courageous episode of The Space Between Two Lines, Alex sits down with Vivien, an Irish expat living in Sydney, Australia, to discuss her heart-wrenching journey through Termination for Medical Reasons (TFMR). After a "storybook" first cycle conception, Vivien’s pregnancy took a devastating turn following a routine 14-week scan that revealed ventriculomegaly (dilated ventricles in the brain). Vivien shares the raw reality of navigating the Maternal Fetal Medicine (MFM) system at the Royal Hospital for Women, the trauma of a 21-week induction, and the complex path of postpartum grief. This conversation is a vital resource for anyone facing the "trenches" of a medical diagnosis during pregnancy and highlights the profound strength found in choosing a child's quality of life over one's own desires. Connect with Vivien: Instagram: @mrs_vivien_t_farrell We invite you to listen to this incredibly brave account of motherhood and resilience. If Vivien’s story resonates with you or could offer comfort to a loved one, please subscribe to the podcast and follow The Space Between Two Lines for more honest conversations that ensure no parent walks this path alone.

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