He Said, She Said

The Moment Louise Nearly Broke Her Five Year Sobriety

He Said, She Said

Show Notes

Louise and Ryan are back from Antigua and they have some BIG news…👀 After two years, Louise finally found her missing engagement ring. Which raises the question… is marriage finally on the cards?

They also debrief the trip, from both Leo and Big Mike’s testing moments to Louise almost breaking her sobriety, there’s a lot to unpack. They talk about managing their IVF journey while away, and how it shifted their whole approach to the holiday. It also opens up a conversation about how holidays look different now they’re parents, which leads to an unexpected debate… should pubs be allowed to ban kids?

And with marriage back in the mix, they get into prenups. Practical or unromantic? And is it something they’d actually consider…they get into a little role play to figure out what they really think!

00:00 We finally found our engagement ring! 09:10 Looking back on our Antigua trip 13:05 How holidays change when you have a child 17:00 Top tips for travelling with a child 20:25 Should children be allowed in pubs? 24:15 The moment Louise nearly broke her sobriety 34:50 How IVF reshaped our holiday experience 38:55 Letting go of beauty standards on holiday 42:00 Would we ever get a prenup? 47:15 Hypothetical cheating role-play

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