Show Notes
I sat down with America’s #1 career expert Suzy Welch. Her approach to careers isn’t about resumes though; it’s about values. She has the best data set on human values in the world. I wanted to understand what her research could tell us about shame.
We cover: Why only 7% of people know their values How you can become part of the 7% America’s #1 value isn’t what you think it is Why Only 2% of Gen Z is hirable The connection between values and shame
THE 16 HUMAN VALUES 1. Agency: Need for self-determination and making decisions. 2. Scope: Desire for a big, chaotic, adventurous life versus a small, secure one. 3. Affluence: Importance of financial wealth and money. 4. Achievement: Drive for visible success and personal validation. 5. Belonging: Need for community, friends, and your people. 6. Belovedness: Value placed on romantic love. 7. Work Centrism: Making work the primary lens of your identity. 8. Family Centrism: Organizing your life and decisions around family. 9. Eudaimonia: Focus on self-care, personal wellbeing, pleasure, and fun. 10. Beholderism: Caring about how things and people look. 11. Radius: Drive to change or blow up large social systems. 12. Cosmos: Reliance on faith and spirituality. 13. Voice: Need to be heard and express yourself. 14. Luminance: An inner desire for wide recognition, fame, or legacy. 15. Nonsibi: The internal drive to give back, be altruistic, and help others. 16. Place: The deep importance and grounding of a specific physical location.
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Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude
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Production & Publicity Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman
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