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Why Men Lose Their Friends — And How To Rebuild A Modern Buddy System With Geoffrey Greif

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Show Notes

Do you know how to build a reliable buddy system to navigate life's transitions? In this episode, we sit down with academic and renowned friendship expert Dr. Geoffrey Greif to uncover why men lose their friends and how to cultivate a more resilient social network. Dr. Greif, author of Adult Sibling Relationships, breaks down the historical and structural differences between side-by-side male bonds and face-to-face connections. Together, we explore his four categories of friendship—must, trust, rust, and just—to help you evaluate your own social circle. If you are struggling to build deeper connections or simply want to understand the dynamics of modern masculinity, this conversation offers a practical roadmap for finding your tribe and reclaiming the camaraderie that sustains us.

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