Self Obsessed

GIRL TALK Q&A: dating advice, friendship jealousy, self-worth & feeling behind in your 20s

Self Obsessed

Show Notes

feeling behind in your 20s? comparing yourself to friends? struggling with dating or confidence? in this girl talk q&a, i’m answering your real dilemmas — from friendship jealousy and dating rejection to self-worth, glow-ups, and navigating your own timeline. whether you’re dealing with unrequited love, envy in friendships, or just trying to figure out your dream career, this is your reminder you’re not alone. grab a matcha, plug in, and let’s get honest. 🤍☕️

♡ WHAT’S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 01:18 Dilemmas in Love and Dating 06:46 Navigating Friendships 14:46 Self-Love and Confidence 22:19 Goals and Career Advice 30:25 Conclusion

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