Feminine Chaos

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Feminine Chaos

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Kat and Phoebe discuss the pressure to be part of a clique, the (over?) valuation of female friendship, Phoebe’s thesis on heteronormativity, and Kat’s theory of the naturally-occurring eccentrics who just vant to be alohn. LINKS: SPECIAL HOLIDAY PROMOTION: Preorder Kat’s new novel from anywhere (Amazon, B&N, Bookshop) by December 31, then, fill out this …

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