Jive Buddies

Episode 103: Dating Etiquette with Joanne and Jane

Jive Buddies

Show Notes

The Jive Buddies revisit the topic of dating on the dance floor, by talking about the etiquette of it, with guests Joanne and Jane. This is a frank discussion about some of the things that may be going on while you're having fun dancing.

Chapters:

Why have so many people dated after meeting on the dance floor? [2:00] "Just because it's social doesn't meant it is a dating place, it's a place for everybody to meet" [7:45] Signals [8:15] Eye contact [15:25] "Like a love affair in 3 minutes" [15:45] Flirting [16:06] Getting to know someone [21:16] After a freestyle, getting a friend request on Facebook [22:58] Slipping into DMs [26:54] Setting boundaries [33:54] Being asked [37:44] Handling rejection [39:46] "In all walks of life, no means no" [42:50] Etiquette of dancing when in a relationship [43:08] What happens if a relationship ends? [46:18] Summary [52:51] Up next [54:05]

Listen to the previous episodes of dating, with 3 guys: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3e5uA1hgjzaIcdycj3DHF8?si=YcyvQljGSEOCqgVKWFCA9w

And with Lesley: https://open.spotify.com/episode/71mZJGowcWKH4Cz7Lc9hQg?si=zDuLbF_MTeupGPdlZOkrvA

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