Show Notes
In the first episode of Still Here: Blessed and Bruised, lifelong friends Lynda and Jon share why these words - still here, blessed and bruised - describe their lives so perfectly. Both experienced profound loss and tragedy as children, long before they had the tools to understand what had happened or how it would shape them. They were left still here, and somehow had to figure out what came next. Now, almost 70 years later, they can look back and see both the bruises they still carry and the...
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