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1537 | A Threshold Is Not a Place to Live

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Show Notes

In this episode, Carl continues his reflection on thresholds, exploring the tension between leaving and arriving as his daughter prepares to get married. Some opposites aren’t problems to solve but polarities to hold, where each side gives meaning to the other. A threshold gives us space to honor what is ending and welcome what is beginning, but eventually, we have to cross it, allowing the old relationship to change shape so we can fully step into what comes next. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

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