Grow With Intention by MuchelleB

It's time to get... meaner: How to drop the people pleasing tendencies.

Grow With Intention by MuchelleB

Show Notes

💿 *Get my free newsletter with simple ideas to make life easier ⇢*→ Sign up: https://www.muchelleb.com.au/newsletter-signup☁️ *Join the Intention Community (it's replaced the Intention app)! ⇢*→ _Every month, two brand-new tools (meditations, worksheets, videos, etc) drop, usually built around a recent video - so that you can take what you’ve learned and do something with it._→ Join: https://intentioncommunity.circle.so/🪞 *Organise your Life with the Calm Productivity Notion Pack. ⇢*→ _"This notion pack is amazing!! I feel like it’s changing my life already and I’ve never been so impressed by a product." Alice Joyce_→ Get the pack: https://shop.muchelleb.com.au/products/the-calm-productivity-notion-pack💭 *Video timeline ⇢*00:00 Be Meaner Not Nicer00:31 People Pleasing Pendulum01:29 Not Manipulation Or Martyrdom03:10 Casual Boundary Setting05:07 Mindful Noticing Practice07:30 Find Your Feared Reality10:15 Membership And Weekly Challenge11:17 Wrap Up And Next Steps🔗 *Anything I mentioned ⇢*🔗 My podcast episode on prediction errors, limiting beliefs and learning by experiencing surprise: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7B9TElYLEoy99I3p9Ra1lh?si=56d38247022541b8

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