Why What Gets You Promoted Isn't What Makes You Effective
The Real Truth About Leadership: Debunking the Myths. Teaching What Works.Show Notes
Most of the people at the top of organizationa aren't there because they're great leaders. They're there because they're great at looking like one. And there's a a lot of research and studies that show it. In this episode, we dig into this distinction — the difference between the leaders who rise and the leaders who actually work. How narcissism predicts who gets promoted but has little relationship to who performs. Why the people doing the real, unglamorous work of leadership are often...
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