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Send Vikki any questions you'd like answered on the show! We all know we should have time away from work yet so many of us don’t. It shocks me that people don’t get more curious about WHY intelligent, capable people don’t do things that we KNOW will help us. In this episode, I share why I think imposter syndrome has a massive impact on our ability to choose a better work life balance. A must if you are exhausted, overwhelmed and fed up of cancelling plans in order to work. If you liked...
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