AP 810: Remember When: 2023 || Newborn Struggles, Joy Amid Hardship, and Fighting for the Podcast's Future
About ProgressShow Notes
I'm opening the 2023 time capsule — the year I had a newborn who wouldn't sleep, a body that wouldn't cooperate, and a podcast that hit a wall. I called it my survival year. But amid the exhaustion, I found gardening, sourdough, and a community that reminded me being present is being productive. I'm also sharing the conversations that carried me through — Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife on self-expansion and Dr. Tanmeet Sethi on choosing joy when happiness isn't available — plus the hard truth that I paid to work that year and what it forced me to face about the future of About Progress.
Old episodes to support: Interviews with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, Emiy Nagoski, Taylor Morrison, Jess Massey, Arielle Estoria, Janssen Bradshaw, Brittney Hanks, Alyssa Blask Campbell, Julie Rose, Tanmeet Sethi . Solo episode on Rhythm Scheduling.
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