Captivated

E109 | Don’t Try This Alone: Why We Need Each Other

Captivated

Show Notes

Friends, what if the healing we long for is waiting on the other side of letting others in? Today, author and teacher Toni Collier joins Stasi for a powerful conversation on her newest book, Don’t Try This Alone. Toni shares her raw, redemptive story of betrayal, resilience, and the trusted community God used to restore her. This conversation is a tender look at vulnerability, friendship, and the God who redeems every story.

….. SHOW NOTES: ….. VERSES: Psalm 31:24 (NIV) – Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the Lord.

2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV) – But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

John 11:35–36 (NIV) – Jesus wept. Then the Jews said, ‘See how he loved him!’

John 21:15–17 (NIV) – “When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, ‘Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?’ ‘Yes, Lord,’ he said, ‘you know that I love you.’ Jesus said, ‘Feed my lambs.’ Again Jesus said, ‘Simon son of John, do you love me?’ He answered, ‘Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.’ Jesus said, ‘Take care of my sheep.’ The third time he said to him, ‘Simon son of John, do you love me?’ Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, ‘Do you love me?’ He said, ‘Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.’ Jesus said, ‘Feed my sheep.’”

….. GUEST Toni Collier Website: ⁠https://www.tonijcollier.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/tonijcollier/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/colliertoni⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@tonijcollier⁠

BIO Toni Collier is the founder of a global women’s organization called Broken Crayons Still Color and helps women process through brokenness and get to healing and hope. Toni is a speaker, host of the Still Coloring podcast, and author of several books: Don't Try This Alone, Brave Enough to be Broken, and a children's book, Broken Crayons Still Color. Toni is teaching people all over the globe that you can be broken and still worthy, or feel unqualified and still be called to do great things.

Don't Try This Alone: How to Build Deep Community When You Want to Hide from Your Pain: ⁠https://a.co/d/iSwqL09⁠

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