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113. Financial Foreplay & Toxic Situationships

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Show Notes

Take the Attachment Archetype Quiz Now! Let’s be real—your relationship with money is just as messy, complicated, and emotionally charged as your relationships with people… maybe even more so. In this episode, we’re peeling back the velvet curtain on the truth: we form deep, emotional relationships with things that aren’t people all the time—our jobs, food, time, our bodies, even our phones. So why wouldn’t money be the same? You’ll learn: How beliefs like “I never have enough time” or “I can’t leave this job” reveal emotional dependencies Why your body image, cluttered home, or doom-scrolling habit is more relationship than routine What it really means to say “money is energy”—and how it reflects your self-worth, control, shame, or desire

If you've ever felt like you're in a toxic situationship with your bank account, this one’s for you. It’s time to start redefining the terms of that relationship, with clarity, compassion, and maybe a little tough love. Awareness is the first step to breaking free... or falling back in love. ---------------------------- Free Resources: Old Money Newsletter Download your Net Worth Tracker Download your Net Work Tracker ---------------------------- Connect with the Old Money Podcast: Community: Join the Old Money Country Club Web: OldMoneyPodcast.com Email: [email protected] Instagram: @OldMoneyPodcast TikTok: @OldMoneyPodcast ---------------------------- Copyright (c) Old Money 2025. The content presented in this podcast is intended to entertain, educate, inspire and support listeners in their personal and professional development and does not constitute business, financial, or legal advice. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services for which individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services related to the episode.

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