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Have you ever hit a milestone you worked your entire life for only to feel absolutely nothing? We often spend so much of our time and attention focused on our future selves that we forget how to live in the present. But it’s not your fault! We were handed this invisible checklist when we were all kids. We’re supposed to get a good education and a good job, buy that house, get married, have those kids, and live that dream life.
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We all thought we would feel a certain way if we did what society said would make us successful. But none of these things actually change who we are. It doesn’t change the emotions we experience in the moment. It just makes us compare ourselves to this inconceivable, impossible representation of what success looks like.
Episode Highlights
The One Thing I’m Learning About Success and Life Right Now [0:05:29]
What I Learned When I Finally Slowed Down [0:13:21]
How We Lose Ourselves Trying to Follow Someone Else’s Path [0:20:48]
Why Success Isn’t Going to Make You Feel Safe [0:22:41] What It Might Look
Like to Put Yourself Out There In New Ways [0:26:27]
We’ve created a culture in which we are rewarding the outcome, not the effort. You have to beat yourself at your own game and outdo yourself every time. But eventually, outdoing yourself becomes impossible. Even if you’re not playing the comparison game and you’re only focused on you, how can you continuously do better than yourself all the time?
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