Show Notes
James was exposed to smoke his whole life and did not see a clear need to quit. While he had made a few half-hearted attempts in the past, nothing seemed to stick. That changed when a major financial circumstance presented a stark choice in his budget: continue buying cigarettes or purchase a home. After choosing to quit for good and navigating the initial struggle, James found himself incredibly grateful for the many unexpected benefits that came his way. Looking backward, James lays out the strategies that helped him stick by his choice.
About James: James is a professional author, and is currently publishing a project called "Public Domain Super Heroes". He started smoking as a teenager, smoked through until 2003, about 15 years, most of that time working as a musician and dj. ✨Find James at: https://publicdomainsuperheroes.com/ https://amazon.com/author/james.richardson https://substack.com/@pdshnewsletter https://www.instagram.com/authorjameslrichardson/
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