How C*m

43 Hating Perimenopause + Loving P***y (Jade Catta-Preta)

How C*m

Show Notes

Actor and Comedian Jade Catta-Preta is back after many seasons and this time she has several life changes to share; she is "so much gayer now" and is also going through pre-menopause or "perimenopause." We talk about everything from getting good at gay sex, to learning to love yourself, to how she felt getting diagnosed with perimenopause. She tells us about how she has been treating it and we run through all the symptoms that come with it in case anyone is going through something similar. It is all parts educational, hilarious, and horny!

CW: SA Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow Jade at @jadecattapreta Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

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