Can't Afford Therapy

Porn & Pretending: "The Habit That's Wrecking Intimacy"

Can't Afford Therapy

Show Notes

In this episode of the Can't Afford Therapy podcast, the hosts delve into the often-taboo subject of porn, exploring their personal relationships with it, the impact it has on sexual dynamics, and the complexities surrounding porn addiction. They discuss how societal perceptions of women and their sexuality influence conversations about porn, and how porn can serve as both a source of education and a potential dependency. The conversation highlights the importance of communication in relationships, the nuances of sexual pleasure, and the need for a more open dialogue about these topics.

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