The Nick Bare Podcast

190: 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Becoming A Dad

The Nick Bare Podcast

Show Notes

In this episode, I share five things I wish I knew before becoming a dad. I talk about treating children as the cornerstone of an unfinished life, staying ambitious without letting work control the home, prioritizing what matters when balance feels impossible, becoming an intentional father, leading through the example I set, and building confidence through curiosity, courage, and competence.

This is not a list of perfect answers. It is an honest look at what the last four years have taught me and what I am still working to become. Whether you are a father, preparing to be one, or thinking about the kind of family you want to lead, I hope this helps you examine your priorities, strengthen your values, and show up with greater intention.

CHAPTERS: 00:00 App Relaunch 01:19 Intro 03:03 Books That Shaped Me 05:50 Lesson 1 10:56 Success To Significance Shift 15:25 Lesson 2 25:42 Time Systems And Priorities 27:40 Lesson 3 34:06 Intentional Father Framework 38:14 Lesson 4 47:12 Lesson 5 54:50 Closing Encouragement

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