Grow With Intention by MuchelleB

Ok but how do you actually “let them”?? (a guide)

Grow With Intention by MuchelleB

Show Notes

Hey! This video is all about how to, "practically", let them. The mental moves behinddd let them, if you will! VIDEO TIMELINE ⇢ 00:00 Lets talk about Letting Them 0:52 The first mental movee you need to understand 01:24 Understanding 'Must Mode' (the opposite of let them) 02:17 Turning 'Shoulds' into Preferences 03:33 Reassuring Your Ego 05:43 Setting Personal Policies and Self Limits 07:26 Cord Cutting bb 08:46 Locus of Control Exercise 10:36 Recs LINKS ⇢ 🔗 Book: Forgive For Good by Fred Luskin https://amzn.to/4cMQFps 🔗 Book: How to Stubbornly Refuse to Make Yourself Miserable by Albert Ellis https://amzn.to/4jdA68p 🔗 Let Them Peom: https://www.instagram.com/cassie.phillips.letthem 🔗 Let Them Book: https://amzn.to/4lMithN LOVE THE PODCAST? ⇢ The Intention App is where I share more of what I don’t put on the podcast. Inside, you’ll find the tools I use to feel calmer, regulate my emotions, create more lightbulb moments, reset my days, and take tiny steps forward toward my goals. 💸 Starts at $7.99/month (with a 3-day free trial) - it’s cheaper to join via the website http://www.theintentionapp.com You get: ☁️ A premium podcast episode every other week ☁️ Actionable mini-courses ☁️ Guided journaling audios ☁️ Meditation tracks ☁️ Quick, on-the-go tools for emotional regulation + mind management FIND GWI ⇢ ☀️ On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2HqznNA2v9McYirvqmUVvO ☀️ On Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grow-with-intention/id1720890847 ☀️ On Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@growwithintention CONNECT WITH ME ⇢ 🧚 Instagram ⇢ http://instagram.com/muchelleb 🧚 Website ⇢ http://muchelleb.com.au/ 🧚 The Grow With Intention Podcast ⇢ https://www.youtube.com/@growwithintention SHOP ⇢ ☁️ The Calm Productivity Notion Pack ⇢ https://shop.muchelleb.com.au/products/the-calm-productivity-notion-pack ☁️ Level up Your Life with The Life Map ⇢ https://shop.muchelleb.com.au/products/the-life-map 💫 A QUICK NOTE 💫 Please take with you from this video what resonates and leave what doesn’t. You know you best.

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