Show Notes
Can You Hear Me Now?
You’ve been praying. Reading your Word. Going to church. But if you’re honest, you still feel disconnected.
In this message, Pastor TJ Tyus uses John 15 and the story of Nehemiah to expose why so many believers struggle to hear God clearly. It’s not that God stopped speaking. It’s that we stopped staying connected.
Pastor TJ compares our relationship with God to wireless vs. wired connection. Wireless can mean dropped calls, static, and interference. Wired connection brings clarity, consistency, and stability.
Jesus repeats one word throughout John 15:
REMAIN.
Remain in me. Remain in my love. Remain in my Word.
No branch can bear fruit by itself. It must remain connected to the vine. Fruit is the evidence of connection. Whatever fruit you’re producing reveals what you’re connected to.
Pastor TJ breaks down the REMAIN framework:
Retreat — remove competing inputs Engage — connect with God consistently, not just in crisis Monitor — pay attention to what God is doing around you Align — bring your decisions into agreement with God Internalize — get God’s Word so deep in you that your response becomes automatic Navigate — choose obedience over emotional impulse
Through personal stories about a difficult Delta flight, losing his AirPods, and the pain of losing his daughter Aries, Pastor TJ reveals the cost of disconnection and the power of staying plugged in.
God spent four months correcting Nehemiah before He spent 52 days constructing the wall.
Because God often has to do something IN you before He can do something THROUGH you.
In this message you’ll discover: → Why “remain” is repeated throughout John 15 → The REMAIN framework: Retreat, Engage, Monitor, Align, Internalize, Navigate → Why fruit is the evidence of connection → What wired vs. wireless connection teaches us spiritually → Why intimacy must come before activity → How God prepared Nehemiah before the 52-day rebuild → The 3C Formula: Connection, Correction, Construction → How to turn pain into purpose → Why God must be your primary connection, not your backup plan
📖 KEY SCRIPTURES John 15:1–11 Nehemiah 1:1–4 Nehemiah 2:4 Nehemiah 6:15 Proverbs 4:23 Romans 10:17 Ephesians 6:12 Philippians 2:10
CHAPTERS: Chapters
00:00:00 Welcome: The Gift of Connection 00:00:39 Can You Hear Me Now? John 15 and the Power of Remaining 00:04:29 REMAIN: The Acronym That Changes Everything 00:05:00 Retreat: Remove Competing Inputs Like Jesus Did 00:05:37 Engage with God: Praying Consistently, Not Just in Crisis 00:06:43 Monitor What God Is Doing: The Burning Bush Moment 00:08:06 Align Your Decisions and Internalize God's Word 00:10:20 Navigate: Choose Obedience Over Emotional Impulse 00:10:40 Fruit Is the Evidence of Connection 00:11:24 The Delta Flight Disaster: A Lesson in Patience and Testing 00:18:20 Wired Connection vs Wireless: The Cost of Disconnection 00:24:43 The 3C Formula: Connection, Correction, Construction 00:25:55 Nehemiah's Four Months: God Built the Builder First 00:26:21 Intimacy Before Activity: Nehemiah's First Response Was Prayer 00:29:07 Then I Prayed to the God of Heaven: Connection Never Stops 00:30:22 Prayer Didn't Delay the Plan, It Developed the Plan 00:32:32 God's Gracious Hand: Permission, Protection, Provision 00:34:39 The Gospel Music That Shifted the Atmosphere 00:39:36 Walking Through the Pain: When You Just Keep Moving 00:40:34 Lift Up Your Head: Physiology Impacts Your Mind 00:42:05 Turn Your Pain to Purpose: God Didn't Take Your Praise 00:42:54 Connection Doesn't Mean It Won't Hurt 00:47:12 Is God Your Backup Plan or Your Primary Connection? 00:47:23 Connection Over Convenience: The Final Altar Call 00:48:57 Closing Prayer: Heal Their Heart, Carry Them, Build the Builder 00:52:18 Next Steps: Connect, Give, and Stay Locked In
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