Talking About Horses

Ep # 63, Tami Elkayam, TALKING ABOUT HORSES - backing horses up, a professional disagreement

Talking About Horses

Show Notes

In this episode, Patrick King and Tammy Elkayam explore differing perspectives on the effectiveness of backing a horse up, the significance of proper execution, and the potential physical and emotional impacts on horses. Through their dialogue, they emphasize the need for professional collaboration and the importance of setting horses up for success in their training and care. They delve into the intricacies of horse training, focusing on the importance of balance, posture, and the physical capabilities of horses. They stress the necessity of mindful training techniques that prioritize the horse's well-being, and the importance of communication between horse and rider. The dialogue emphasizes the need for riders to inspire their horses rather than force them, highlighting the significance of understanding the horse's body and emotional state. The conversation also touches on the challenges of miscommunication in the equestrian world. Throughout, they emphasize the interconnectedness of physical health, mental well-being, and the learning process in horses, as well as in riders.

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