Miss Me?

Just Take a Lover

Miss Me?

Show Notes

Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss dating apps, Monty Don, flowers and Loose Men. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaidProduction Coordinator: Rose WilcoxExecutive Producer: Dino SofosCommissioning Producer for BBC: Jake WilliamsCommissioners: Dylan Haskins & Lorraine OkuefunaMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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